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This past weekend I went to meet the florist. And let me just say, I love the florist! I hope we get to use him because he will tell it like it is. And is even offering to take some of the vases off my hands after the reception! YIPPEE.
But I went in thinking I knew exactly what I wanted with the bouquets (this is pretty much the only flowers I am doing). I wanted the girls to carry the burgandy/plum colored calla lilly's and then i would carry the white ones. Well, my mind changed as soon as I got in there! I decided that I wanted other flowers to go along with them. And he suggested that I pull some lighter colors for the girls bouquets since there dresses are that charcoal color. Now I am confused. I dont know what I want. I think I have narrowed it down a little bit though. Here is a picture of what I think I want the girls flowers to look like:

But without the palm leaves on the bottom.
And then I think I want the white calla's and the white orchids in my bouquet, maybe something like this:
But without the roses. Although I think the roses look pretty here.
And the G will wear a white calla and the groomsmen will wear a plum calla...
I also like this bouquet for the girls.. what do you think?


But with less green and more of the callas....